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No ladies, the concept of dating several guys in France kind of goes out the window once you seal the deal with a kiss. If you’re out in a rowdy bar and everyone is just looking to have a good time, this rule might not apply.But if you’ve gone out with a guy a few times and you haven’t kissed him yet, think things through before you plant one on him under the Eiffel Tower for fun.To me, it seems that French guys are more direct without all the mind games.Dating isn’t really a game at all and is straightforward and uncomplicated.Everyone says that it’s easy to date in New York City but hard to actually find a relationship. Tom is the only French guy I’ve ever dated, so I had it easy when it came to the whole French dating game. Our relationship developed from genuine friendship and wasn’t rushed or forced.One day you’ll find your better half.” It’s true, you shouldn’t worry, but you should also stop waiting for the future to arrive. I was just having brunch with French and Americans and this subject came up. It’s not until they talk to an American friend and realize, “Ho! ”American women would never think they just went for a “casual dinner with a friend” — until they speak with a Frenchie: “Ahhh…I thought I was on a date.”Last question: French kissing. Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and God what belongs to God. Americans know how to speak English with no accent.(I’m half kidding.)Remember that everything I told you is just a theory.I can’t really find a way to explain how we “DTR” in France, because we don’t. Is there as much pressure in France to be in a relationship? Is that the reason why people can’t find a boyfriend? I truly believe in timing, and I think that “fast loving” (inspired from fast food and fast fashion) created new guidelines in NYC. Nonchalance in every subject is the national sport. If we narrowed everything down this quickly in real life, there wouldn’t be any spontaneity.

French guys are used to being turned down by French girls, who are known for playing hard to get.

MR’s resident French girl, Laura, has covered all sorts of topics from our end: the right way to order wine, the myth (or truth) that French people hate ice, brunch, Tinder and the universal problem of getting kale stuck in your teeth.

This time, however, with the topic being a bit more…complicated…she enlisted the help of two companions: an American man who is gay and single, and a French woman who is in a relationship with an American man.

So here’s a handy guide on some of the things you need to know about dating a French guy.

If you’ve found a keeper, want to test the waters, or are just curious…

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